A forward mail I got…
If we are not going in the direction that will ultimately lead us to our goals, one of the problems may be the questions that we ask ourselves. It may be time to reframe some of the questions. Here are a few examples:
Original question: What am I getting?
Reframed question: What am I becoming?
Original question: Why is this happening to me?
Reframed question: What can I learn from this?
Original question: Why can’t he/she understand me?
Reframed question: How can I communicate so that he/she can understand me?
Original question: How can I get to the next position so that I am better?
Reframed question: How can I become better so that I get to the next position?
Original question: Why should I be proud of working for my company?
Reframed question: Why should my company be proud of me working for them?
Original question: How can I find a cool company to work for?
Reframed question: How can a cool company find me to work for them?
Original question: How can I get this task done?
Reframed question: What is the right configuration of resources to get this done in the most optimum fashion?
